Was going to make a sort-of-veiled pointed post toward one of my real life friends because she’s been complaining about people not being good friends to her in a very passive aggressive way on Tumblr where they can’t see it lately, but has also been really anti-social and noncommunicative when people try to involve her in things or invite her to come out. Which is really poor manners, and kind of getting on my nerves.
But then I realized that she doesn’t follow me anymore, so I’ll just blabber about it to the 8 of you who do.
Basically, if you wanna have good friends, you have to actually show up to the party, not sit at home whining about it. Turning down every invitation for months because you want to watch your favorite show on TV or you are in a shitty mood or you’re tired from work or whatever will, in fact, result in people not asking you to come out anymore. Putting yourself down as a ‘maybe’ to every event without explanation and then never showing up will not get you attention. Sorry. We’re grown ups now. We have lives with families and jobs and school and basically social life is something that will only happen if everyone involves works for it, so when you quit working for it, you quit having it. Sucks to be you.